Sri Venugopal Goswami who mesmerized with his bhajans shares thought changing advise :
Problems arise when we go after attractions of the eye (Visual attractions).
We have the fear of missing out (he calls it FOMO). Eg: My friends are doing this (and I have to be part of it, otherwise…)
Convert this into joy of missing out (he calls it JOMO), i.e. give this party a miss and “enjoy the joy of missing out” he suggests.
He was speaking at Srimad Bhagwad Gyan Yagyna at Tumsar. Although we forget much of the useful things we hear, some of it sticks to the mind which may change our lives for the better.